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Four Reasons Why Modern Motherhood Is So Hard

Motherhood today comes with unique challenges that often leave women feeling overwhelmed and unsupported. Unlike past generations, where extended family networks offered shared caregiving and collective wisdom, many modern mothers face the isolating reality of managing work, home, and parenting largely on their own. The rising cost of living has also created a double burden, with mothers expected to excel in their careers while still carrying the majority of domestic responsibilities—a recipe for exhaustion and burnout.

At the same time, societal pressures fueled by social media push unattainable standards of “perfect” motherhood, leaving many women feeling they’re falling short. But it doesn’t have to be this way. By building a strong support network, simplifying expectations, and prioritising self-care, you can navigate these hurdles with greater ease

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Alloy Parenting: Reclaiming Our Shared Caregiving Roots for Healthier Families

In today’s world, parenting often feels isolating, with many of us navigating the demands of caregiving alone. The shift away from community living has left parents burnt out and children missing out on the richness of shared caregiving. By embracing "alloy parenting," where care is shared among a network of family and friends, we can begin to reclaim the joy and ease that comes with community. Small actions, like leaning on loved ones for support or spending time together without an agenda, can help rebuild the village we’ve lost. Parenting was never meant to be done in isolation—let’s reconnect with each other and raise our children with shared presence, support, and love.

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From Habit to Healing: Understanding the Spectrum of Substance Use and When It Becomes Addiction

Substance use exists on a spectrum, from occasional use to full-blown addiction. Understanding where you or a loved one might fall on this spectrum is essential in recognizing when it’s time to seek support. In this blog, we explore the signs that substance use may be crossing into addiction and how a holistic approach—addressing the body, mind, and spirit—can support healing and recovery. If you're noticing negative impacts on your life or relationships, it's time to take a step toward healing.

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Thriving Through Christmas

Christmas can be joyful—but for many mums, it’s also overwhelming. Thriving Through Christmas offers practical tips to manage stress, set boundaries, and avoid burnout during the festive season. Discover how to create a holiday that nurtures your family and yourself with simple, effective strategies.

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Supporting Your Postpartum Journey: The Role of a Perinatal Counsellor

Why a Perinatal Counsellor Should Be Part of Your Postpartum Plan

The postpartum period is a time of big changes—physically, emotionally, and mentally. While much of the focus is often on the baby, it’s just as important to prioritise your own well-being during this transition. This is where a perinatal counsellor can help.

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